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ini belum tentu seperti yang terbaca dan terlihat. Periksakan dulu mata
dan kemampuan membaca sampeyan sebelum tertipu dan misuh-misuh sendiri
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Children [Kahlil Gibran]
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
Which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
And He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness; For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also The bow that is stable.
Don't try this at home PERINGATAN PEMERINTAH |
Memperlakukan bayi secara asal-asalan dapat menyebabkan serangan
jantung dan mengganggu kehamilan [orang lain]. Anda juga bisa dituduh
telah menganiaya anak di bawah umur....
Dari Lingkungan Hidupnya Anak-anak Belajar [Dorothy Law Nolte]
Jika anak dibesarkan dengan celaan
Ia belajar memaki
Jika anak dibesarkan dengan permusuhan
Ia belajar menentang
Jika anak dibesarkan dengan cemoohan
Ia belajar rendah diri
Jika anak dibesarkan dengan toleransi
Ia belajar jadi penyabar
Jika anak dibesarkan dengan dorongan
Ia belajar percaya diri
Jika anak dibesarkan dengan pujian
Ia belajar menghargai
Jika anak dibesarkan dengan kasih sayang dan persahabatan
Ia akan terbiasa berpendirian
ADENDUM |
Bagaimana kalau anak dibesarkan dengan cara diseret-seret seperti ini?
Ia akan belajar menjadi .... pengemudi mobil derek ... 